RELATIONSHIPS ! DO WE NEED THEM? actually yes we do. When our entire lives revolve around emotion in some form or another, we cannot avoid them. They are both the making and breaking of us. Firstly it is our relationships that teach us the most important lessons in life. Of course when we have a relationship that hurts us and ends badly, we decide for a while that we need to heal. More over in some cases people decide to live and carry on alone through life. As a result they don’t tend to grow emotionally and spiritually.
RELATIONSHIPS! DO WE NEED THEM ?
Yes we do, however I, myself have only realized this in recent years. We need our interactions with others in order to live. The standing of the relationships we have all equally important. Friends, relatives and lovers. Of course our intimate relationships are those that tend to have the biggest effect on us. Equally we have developed a society where by we find a spouse and if you end up having more than one marriage or intimate long term relationship in your life, well, there must be something wrong with you. Why? in a matter of fact most adults have more than one significant, intimate relationship in their life. Relationships are not status symbols. More over they are not something you achieve. Firstly, how many people do you know that have a certificate on their wall because they manage to stay in one marriage?
RELATIONSHIPS! DO WE NEED THEM ?
Of course we all know someone that projects the image of the perfect life, the perfect marriage. Not only that, they have the cheek to look down on those that have the strength to be honest about their faults and flaws. By the same token the last laugh is had when we find out that life behind that “perfect ” front door is less than ideal. It is a matter of fact that no marriage is perfect. Equally no relationship that means a lot to us is ever perfect. When strong emotion is involved on any level, we a driven to make decisions based on that emotion. We learn more about ourselves through relationships. Coupled with emotional intelligence and how to improve ourselves