RELATIONSHIPS..are we meant to meet certain people ? some relationships bring us pain and teach us what emotional pain actually is. “Pain” a word to describe a sensation that we generally find unpleasant. As a matter of fact the brain processess emotion in the same way whether it is perceived as pleasant or unpleasant. Dependent on our pasts and how we perceive ourselves. So that said, should we judge people and their characters on how they make us feel?
HOW WE TREAT PEOPLE SAYS MORE ABOUT OURSELVES….
How we treat people and what we decide depends on how we perceive ourselves at that point in life. Indeed what we learn about emotion at that time depends on the relationships in our lives at the time. Our lives, ( i believe) are a combination of freewill and destiny. Therefore meeting certain people at pivotal times in our lives takes us to a series of crossroads where major decisions are made.
RELATIONSHIPS..are we meant to meet certain people ?
Therefore whether we like it or not our major decisions and directions depend on our significant relationships. Similarly the outcomes of those relationships and undercurrents they cause. The next most important relationships in our lives aside from intimate are the inner circle of friends. Important relationship advice comes our little circle of ” dating war command”. More recently though I have come to realise that they actually have a little too much influence over us. Picking over text messages and putting their own perception to them. Don’t forget that they have perceptions coloured by their relationships. More over their past experiences. When you add all this up just think how many people are actually having a say over your relationship?
We don’t automatically think about that because when we ask for advice there is only one person standing in front of us. The input comes from many different people through that one person. In fact we subconsciously choose the people for “dating war command” . We think we just bump into them but we actually pick them. So much goes on under the surface of our minds than we give it credit for.
GOING BACK TO TWIN FLAMES AND SOUL MATES
Important to say that having only recently worked that one out, I talk to one person only and that’s the person concerned. When the monumentally important relationships come along, we don’t feel the need to ask for advice or have text messages pulled apart. These come along only a few times and sometimes only once. So my question is, why do we try and behave apathetic toward them.
Why do we hate to admit that they are as important to us as they so obviously are? It may come down to social acceptance. Soul connections with different people are relevant to our time of life and the path we must take. The facts are that sometimes these relationships don’t fit into a box. Either frowned upon or not “convenient” to those around us. More over these less acclaimed connections can be some of the most important to us. Having the most influence.
So with this in mind should we place more importance on these connections that have so much influence over our emotions and decisions. As a society we always say that we must put duty and security before emotion and personal lives. However it’s our personal relationships that dictate how we perceive ourselves remember. The decisions and directions we take at each crossroads depends solely on how we see ourselves at the time. This perception comes from the love and support we have around us at the time.