MIX SCIENCE AND SPIRITUALITY ?? PART TWO… When life gets too comfortable for us and we become apathetic, the universe always manages to blind side us again!! The collective consciousness is a lot of the issue. It’s true to say that thoughts are more powerful than we give them credit for. By the same token, apathy is a human trait that leads us into problems every time. As a result, the less we do the less we want to do. When will we ever learn that if we want to stop the cycles of life being so destructive we need to be more careful with our thinking, Is it time to use the law of attraction to get us back on our feet?
SCIENCE AND THE LAW OF ATTRACTION
MIX SCIENCE AND SPIRITUALITY ?? PART TWO the law of attraction is the same as the collective consciousness. If we don’t think about progress and transformation it will never happen. Similarly apathy is a common human trait that tends to keep us stagnant. So if we live in our minds how can we tell if something is real? It’s true that we don’t have to see, taste or feel something to know it’s there. By the same token how can we say something doesn’t exist just because it’s not kinaesthetic ? we can’t. The power of thought is immense. As a result the possibilities are endless. When we connect with another person on a mental level we really get to know them on every level.
MIX SCIENCE AND SPIRITUALITY ?? PART TWO
Human connections and the power of thought….
We build trust and rapport by making a mental connection with people. When listening to someone be 100% present. In my work as a driving instructor and as a therapist it is essential to have that mental connection in order to be effective in either capacity. Similarly in personal and especially in intimate relationships, you can be physically present in a relationship but not mentally. More over if this is the case then your situation is not real. For a successful intimate relationship like a marriage if you don’t forge that link on every level you will sadly join the ever growing divorce stats. Unfortunately not many couples are actually able to connect on such an intimate level. If you know your partner on this level then there is not storm your relationship won’t survive.
Many believe that when a couple argue they are nearing the end of their relationship. When the frequency of the arguing intensifies this is a sign that you must start listening actively with one another. Even though you are in conflict you are still engaging at that point. Too many couples think they are at the worst during the drama. It’s actually when the fighting stops and both parties start “people pleasing for the sake of the children they have. Firstly children are not stupid and treating them as such is a huge mistake. It WILL backfire and I speak from experience. My ex husband and I tried both. Staying together for the kids and being apart and having joint custody. To be honest we were better parents apart once the marriage had broken down.
Tolerating each other for the kids just evokes them to lose respect for the idea of marriage. It can also induce them to feel responsible for the marriage because it is only standing for them. This puts them under enormous pressure and responsibility at a young age. Is the way forward more focus on educating young people about the importance of such connections before they chose a life partner for marriage?
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HOW DO WE KNOW WHEN WE HAVE CONNECTED WITH A PERSON ON EVERY LEVEL.